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When the stars are in her eyes And the sun is in her smile The only moment in a life That happens the same time Is when a woman loves a man
She'll be a mother and a child Sacrifice her days and nights And no other will exsist She'll put her life in every kiss When a woman loves a man
And you'll be amazed at when you're stumbling
She'll fight for you And won't let you give in She'll do all that she can When a woman loves a man
A soothing breeze always blows Somebody understands another soul It's like the planets have aligned Every sentence has a rhyme When a woman loves a man
Oh, you'll be amazed how when You're needing it She'll fight for you From the begining to the end And she'll do all that she can When a woman loves a man
It's the greatest gift of all Knowing tht unconditionally She'll catch you when you fall
Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah Oooohh, yeah When a woman loves a man
When the stars are in her eyes And the sun is in her smile She'll be a mother and a child But all at the same time When a woman loves a man
She'll be your air, She'll bring you life She'll make me sacrifice When a woman loves a man by owner_magdy, AFF
Life without love is like a coconut in which the milk
is dried up." Henry David Thoreau
"Good sex....Improves our health and may even contribute
to our longevity."
Scientific evidence is accumulating support what many
of us have suspected all along: good sex not only adds great
enjoyment to our lives, but it also actually improves our
health and may even contribute to our longevity.
In a new book called Sexual Healing, Dr. Paul Pearsall,
Director of Behavioral Medicine at Detroit's Beaumont
Hospital, writes that the joys and pleasures of living
life and loving may provide us with something called an
"intimacy inoculation" that actually protects
us from disease.
Dr. Pearsall, who cites numerous other researchers, concludes,
"Growing numbers of physicians now recognize that
the health of the human heart depends not only on such factors
as genetics, diet, and exercise, but also --to a large extent--
on the social and emotional health of the individual."
Sexual healing is achieved primarily through the daily
challenge of maintaining a close, intimate relationship
which, when accomplished, leads to balance between our
health and healing systems.
Can lack of sexual intimacy create a risk factor for certain
diseases? Dr. Pearsall cites research and his own clinical
experience ndicating that sexual dissatisfaction seems
to be prevalent prior to a heart attack in a high percentage
of persons. Conversely, sexual contentment appears related
to less severe migraine headaches, fewer and less-severe
symptoms of premenstrual syndrome for women, and a reduction
in symptoms related to chronic arthritis for both genders.
Although the exact biological mechanisms are not yet identified,
many researchers are investigating how our thoughts,
feelings, brain, immune system and sexual/genital system
interact, influence each other, and affect our health.
There may be an actual biological drive toward closeness,
intimacy, and being connected to other human beings.
When we experience intimate, mutually caring sexual intimacy,
we may experience a measurable change in neurochemicals
and hormones that pour through the body and help promote
health and healing.
"Hormones that pour through the body help promote
health and healing."
Does this mean that to live longer or be more healthy we just
need to DO IT more often or better? Of course not! Sex is a
much broader concept that genital connecting or having
an orgasm. Psychologist and author Gina Ogden, Ph.D. notes
in her book, "Women Who Love Sex", that sex has
everything to do with openness, connection to and bonding
with a partner, feelings about what is happening to us,
and memories. For those who love it, sex permeates their
lives and is not merely a specialized, time-intensive,
physical activity that takes place under the covers--as
quickly as possible.
As a result of interviewing many women, Dr. Ogden learned
that sexual desire, or lust, was produced by much more than
physical stimulation. For women, according to Dr.Ogden,
it has more to do with feelings of connectedness in their
relationships: "Heart to heart, soul to soul, even
mind to mind."
"For women, it has to do with feelings of connectedness
in their relationships."
When discussing sexual connecting, Dr. Ogden's interviewees
spoke of a FLOWING CONTINUUM OF PLEASURE, ORGASM, AND ECSTASY,
rather than a one-time experience. They also described
peak sexual experiences as coming from stimulation all
over their bodies--not just from their genitals--including
fingers, toes, hips, lips, neck, and earlobes.
Obviously, arousal and satisfaction evolve not only from
receiving sexual energy, but also from the joy of stimulating
one's partner. Sex, then, is a commitment of give and
take.
Finally, the women Dr. Ogden studied have their own concepts
of safe sex, essential to experiencing sexual pleasure
and ecstasy. This kind of safe sex does NOT relate to preventing
STDs or pregnancy; it relates, instead, to emotional and
spiritual safety. Such safety is CRUCIAL for sexual closeness.
Most of the women insisted that warm, loving connections
with themselves and with their partners were essential
to and inseparable from the experience of sexual ecstasy.
When people feel deeply close while merely holding hands,
they are having sex. When people display caring for each
other through hugs, caresses, and kissing, they are also
having sex. When connecting people in a crowded room wink
at each other in their own secret way, they are communicating
sex to each other; such non-contact sex can be excitedly
arousing and emotionally fulfilling. And, of course,
during sexual union when the sky seems to open so a lightning
bolt can strike the couple--while fireworks ignite and
the earth stops spinning-- this is sex, too.
But wait. Do men also need this almost spiritual connection
to enjoy sex and achieve good health? Well, yes and no. Men
need sex and men need emotional connection, but many men
don't necessarily need to put the two together!
According to Dr. Bernie Zilbergelt, who wrote The New Male
Sexuality, sex for women is intertwined with personal
connection. For some men , sex is unto itself--an act to
be engaged in with or without love, with or without commitment,
with or without connection.
Presently, younger boys are being socialized in a more
enlightened manner; consequently, male attitudes toward
sexual union are changing. But, unfortunately, the socialization
of many men born in or before the 60's provided very
little information of value to the formation and maintenance
of intimate relationships. These men were taught, as youths,
that males showed love by doing, not by talking or "connecting"
with girls.
"Fortunately, anyone can...restore closeness,
intimacy, and sexual flow."
Older men were usually also socialized to be strong and
self-reliant, which usually means one doesn't easily
talk about or admit personal problems. Many such men do
not acknowledge worries and fears to their partners; they
simply try to handle everything on their own.
A consequence of such reticence is (1) lack of intimacy
in the relationship, with the wife feeling "left
out" of her husband's life; and (2) men often
don't get what they need because they don't know
how to ask for it, so they feel distanced and frustrated
when they really want closeness and intimacy as much as
their partner does.
Sex under these conditions creates distance in the relationship
or creates sexual dysfunction which drives an even deeper
wedge into the relationship. This is especially true if
a man is married to a woman must be wanted by her husband to
have her sexuality validated.
Consequently, sex routinely becomes mechanical, unfeeling,
and unfulfilling. Fortunately, anyone can break this
vicious cycle and restore closeness, intimacy, and sexual
flow in the relationship. By owner magdy, AFF
There is no secret - women like oral sex a lot. Oral sex for
women or in other words cunnilingus is something that can
make a woman go crazy of pleasure and satisfaction. Due
to some anatomic reasons tongue and mouth touching women’s
genitals gives incredible feeling for her, but there are
some things that partner (men) should know and pay attention
to. Cunnilingus is delicate skill, which requires patience,
practice and understanding how to do it right. By longnhardy
27/Man
New Delhi, Delhi,
India
AdultFriendFinder Member 
Ego! We fail to understand why men can stop and ask for direction
till it's 40 kms into the wrong direction?! Like, isn't
it more sensible to just ask for directions, you save on
time, petrol and energy?
Would it kill to remember? They remember the names of cricketers
from Holland and the scores each player has made, but cannot
for the life them remember birthdays, anniversaries and
buying gifts. What kind selective memory is that?
Ogling: They love to ogle at women (read breasts), even
when they are with their date. Like, how rude!
Double talk: They nod their heads during a talk about gender
equality, and then insist on paying the bills during a date,
because it is not manly enough to let the woman pay. Yeah,
right! At least, not when someone could be watching.
Lazy men: Talking about gender equality and men supporting
it, how about giving us a hand with household chores?
Possessive... ugh! They are extremely possessive. Whatever
makes them so insecure as opposed to the manly image they
like portray?
Hypocrisy: They love to hang out with cool babes, but when
it comes to marriage they want a simple homely girl. Guys,
looks like you have around two centuries of catching up
to do. And... please hurry with it!
The basics of life: Life without booze, sex and cigarettes
is just unthinkable. And, no, I haven't figured the
order of importance.
The phallic symbol: They have a birth right over the Remote
control. Seems it is more like a phallic symbol that they
need to carry around at home, I guess.
Superman! Think of themselves to be exalted beings - a mechanic,
technician, plumber and financial advisor all rolled
into one. We might have liked that about you, if you didn't
make such a big deal out of it! By longnhardy
27/Man
New Delhi, Delhi,
India
AdultFriendFinder Member
Everybody heard rumours about women faking orgasms. Is
that true? The majority of women have faked at least one
orgasm, yet some fake almost all of them. Why do they do that?
There are many reasons and the case is that there's
no one to blame.
The most common are two reasons: they don't want to
make their partners feel bad or they are tired and just want
to end sex. Most females say that their partners are not
satisfied until the girls feels orgasm, there's only
one way to make them feel happy and stop the exhausting procedure
- fake.
Another reason is that a typical female doesn't seek
for orgasm; she desires a sexual relationship only because
she wants intimacy. Still, such an attitude may make her
partner feel bad. The only way out is to fake it out. By longnhardy
27/Man
New Delhi, Delhi,
India
AdultFriendFinder Member
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